Monogamy Doesn’t Always Work

Not everyone is cut out to be exclusive. I think some people, especially men in my jaded opinion, believe they are missing out on something if they only sleep with one person. What that something is I will never know however when you ask a man why they cheated they always say it just happened or they weren’t sexually satisfied at home. I always ask couldn’t you simply break up with the person instead of cheating. At least this way you would be able to still have trust between the two of you and you could avoid being called a dog. And women we live in a society where double standard is the norm you can’t do what a man does and not be labeled a whore no matter how bad he treated you or if he cheated first. Just accept it and take the high road and leave.

Also to be honest I can be categorized as a hypocrite because I have slept with someone who was in a relationship. There is no way to defend it because I knew it was wrong but sometimes shit really does just happen. We were friends and I was getting over a bad breakup and he was on the verge of breaking up. The situation just brought us closer together than we ever expected but thankfully we realized it was just the stress of the situation that led us to bed and he stayed and worked things out with his girlfriend and I moved on to someone else. I know you’re going to curse me out because of all the things I said in the beginning but I still feel that way. My friend was missing communication and intimacy in his relationship and instead of reaching out and explaining this to his girlfriend he reached out to me instead and for a brief minute he found what he was looking for. Eventually I had to remind him about the things he would be missing out on if he didn’t work things out with his girl. A new relationship shouldn’t be started before the old is finished and definitely not when your emotions are so high and tainted that you don’t know what is real. Also just so you know I was madly in love with him but I know if I didn’t allow him to work things out with his girl first then our relationship would be built on shady foundation that could eventually crumble.

Published in: on October 26, 2012 at 9:31 pm  Leave a Comment  
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